And while we are all at different places on that journey (from a lack of self-love all the way through a deep and personal love for self)..we are truly all on that journey. I thank God for you everyday. The answer is surprisingly simple. Maybe two other cars are here, and it seems so quiet, so still, so peaceful. I love this thought you have shared â about how others are mirrors of us (on the inside). Beverley´s Last Fabulous Post ..Are you utilising this moment, Beverly, Nothing makes me love a woman more than a kid from a one night stand. This is what I posted on FB recently: âCompassion starts with self â today, be kind to yourself. And as Iâm acclimating myself back into this space, I come here with a deeper sense of peace. The âallâ of us â it is all (for lack of a different word) (grin) of what makes up our being. It was one simple line from the book Eat Pray Love that did it for me: âGod dwells within you as you yourself, just the way you are.â I donât align myself with any particular religion and that helps me believe even more. (what might I find?) To sacrifice is to give up something precious in order to gain or maintain something, such as a valuable relationship or some other worthy cause. Specifically, love is a feeling produced in the pre-optic area, an area in the anterior hypothalamus that connects to the pituitary gland. Itâs a journey, and one I hope Iâm moving more fully into each dayâ¦, It is a tough balance for sure. Well, there’s more! This is especially true when whole groups of individuals are looked down upon as "inferior" or "not good enough". Iâve been thinking a lot about this sort of thing lately, and am inclined to concur with you that self-love is the ultimate path to learning to love others. It's not about the sex or gender of the person but how they treat you! The more we love, the more we love. I went back to school to get all certified in nutrition/counseling/coaching â and surely I eat right â but I think what I THINK ABOUT has more to do with my current state of health than anything I eat or donât eat! Be good to yourself This topic of self-love is one that is near and dear to me, especially lately. You see I love myself enough to know that my common sense is kicking in and letting me know, this isnât a good idea, because I would get lost. Hi Melody, When I was in that sandbox, though, I was focused on being in that sandbox. Still, they are ours. If so, then find other ways to feel good about yourself that don't require being superior or judgmental towards others. Let's say it is a mid-morning in June. My personal thoughts on faith (Jesus/God) are perhaps somewhat of a mix. And that starts with making the choice to love ourselves, warts and all. Well since it really does take two too tango today which i will say that most of the women that are still single are very much too blame for this mess in the first place since this is a very totally different time today. KCLAnderson (Karen)´s Last Fabulous Post ..A Series of Goodbyes, âBlasphemousâ not âblastphemousâ LOL!! Meier´s Last Fabulous Post ..Pursuit- Passion- and Perils- The Story of One Young Entrepreneur. Is an instant spark a sign it's meant to be? Be grateful when you find it (see here). We donât have to do ANYTHING different or be anyone other than who we are to be worthy of love. Then â weâre more truly able to go out and share the love out to those around us (and create a new, life-giving circle). No way. We can love ourselves and challenge ourselves, but also know when we need help from others, because of our own limitations. From that, I believe I am writing more fully from my heart. Embrace our dark to bring us to the light. The mountains surrounding me are no longer visible in the denseness of where I'm at. You may be asking...what does this have to do with finding love? Itâs like there is this inherent wisdom in us when we are bornâ¦wisdom that connects us to what truly matters (to love). This again protects their self-esteem, providing a ready-made excuse for failure. What a wonderful way to look at love â and to know that how we love outwardly, itâs a sign of how we love inwardly. Yes, that is us â in our imperfectly perfect (and perfectly imperfect) states. How do we relate to all? Like this visit to the mountain, love…it's like that. Tice, D. M. (1991). Frost talks about. This is so integral, for it takes us on a journey of who are we really? When I put the guitar in the car. Yes. The sand has my attention. Love that thought â âwhat is eating youâ. So, I love this point you have shared â about how self love is also about seeing, truly seeing, where self-love hasnât always been so loving. And Psalm 23 is a special one to me, and one I studied as part of a group study a couple of years ago. If there's one thing I've learned on my quest for lasting love, which has now spanned decades, it's that successful relationships require a hell of a lot more than feelings. There's also a deeper part of us, too – that getting off of the path. And thatâs a meaning that comes from within that makes all the difference. A present. In order to stay in control and maintain self-esteem, everyone else "has to" be at least a little bit inferior as a date. Jen How Angie Got Her Groove Back & You Can Too. Love, like the wind in our sails, lifts us up in amazing ways. other than that... like does start when a guy approaches a girl alright, and if she can manage to keep things interesting, and not have dumb expectations, eventually Love may begin to form for the guy. 2) If you're having a hard time finding someone who is "good enough" - then you might want to check your pre-judging. Where do I begin To tell the story of how great a love can be The sweet love story that is older than the sea The simple truth about the love she brings to me Where do I start. They sit in judgment of others, believing that everyone else needs to prove their worth. My sense of direction is very bad. Go figure ð With Brian Belz, Nella Citino, Mark Huismann, Bob Moore. That said, fans of action-adventure anime are advised to watch Part 2, which is … Sure, the person is snug in their world, still feeling good and believing that they "can" get a date. I join you in loving what I am being. Where is love? Tia Sparkles Singh´s Last Fabulous Post ..A Scannerâs Resume- How to tell if youâre one, Tia-liscious!! 5. She had written it in response to an intuitive call to create greater Self Love Awareness. The song was first introduced as an instrumental theme in the 1970 film Love Story after the film's distributor, Paramount Pictures, rejected the first set of lyrics that were written. Is it underneath the willow tree That I've been dreaming of? This line really stood out for me in this âself love is connecting with who I amâ. The light, the dark, the uncertainty and doubt, the assuredness⦠Self-love and âthe allâ are one and the same. Individuals do this a lot in dating situations by building up how "scary" or "intimidating" it is to talk to someone else. That time away, it was so good for me. Check this box only if you want to be notified of ALL follow-up comments. Itâs only because of Christ, I love myself and am grateful for that which is both blessing and gift. Satvic (tendency to … I believe that I was created by a God that loves me beyond measure. Galen, Me thinks youâve done yourself proud here â and it is becoming clear that the time away from blogging had you cooking on those back burners. It's still there, except, it is different. David Stevens´s Last Fabulous Post ..The problem is in the Question OR There are no problems only Questions. Dr. Jeremy NicholsonThe Attraction Doctor, Previous Articles from The Attraction Doctor. I enjoyed the little poem very much! Christian, Except, are you missing out on something even greater – are you missing out on connecting fully with who you are and the real that comes from knowing you, seeing you, loving you? If we start with ourselves, then what we give to others is more genuine, more fulfilling, more meaningful. KCLAnderson (Karen)´s Last Fabulous Post ..A Series of Goodbyes, What a beautiful allegory! It is a very nice and interesting post.I enjoy reading it,no doubt you are a great writer,keep writing such a beautiful posts. The problem is that you are probably filtering them out. Ha!! Nothing makes me love a woman more than hearing what a character/nice guy i am untill she's over 40 than deciding she want to settle down. Thanks for your message of love. Still, itâs where I (you) can start, right? The roles and responsibilities align with your skills and interests, but you’re still left with one question: Where do medical assistants work? Ajen, The day, I'm not sure. Everything around me, I know it's there – the grass, the trees, the plants. These biases and misperceptions make folks miss good opportunities. "Where Do I Begin?) Not sure what happens in between [life??] By eliminating these biases, you will literally see more opportunities for love. This too provides an ego boost. Required fields are marked *. The preoptic area [ 1] is responsible for thermoregulation and receives nervous stimulation from thermoreceptors in the skin, mucous membranes, and hypothalamus itself. It is also the answer you might have been thinking about, or looking for, if you arrived here after the last of April 2016. Are you discounting every person without giving them a chance? A simple example is a student choosing to not get a good night sleep before a big exam. The month is September. Where do i begin To tell the story of how great a love can be The sweet love story that is older than the sea The simple truth about the love she brings to me Where do i start With her first hello She gave new meaning to this empty world of mine There'll never be another love, another time She came into my life and made the living fine I am a bit of losing the meaning of loving of myself. I know Iâve been given much and I could achieve more than I already have. Must I travel far and wide? Will I ever know the sweet "hello" That's meant for only me? Your ability to find and notice love in your life will be greatly enhanced if you remove the above biases. (and thank you). And these mountains I was inâ¦they were mountains not so far from you â a part of the Rocky Mountains in northern Colorado. And especially with, as you said, âthe imperfect me, formed in perfectionâ and the so-called dark corners, which Iâm learning to love and find grace in. I keep my friends informed :)Finally, remember to share, like, tweet, and comment below. The tree lines, the waterfalls, the mountain peaks – views that are incredible to take in. Delena, Give others a little encouragement when they do what you like (see here). The older I get, it seems Iâm off the trail more than Iâm on it. Lance, this piece was so inspired â felt like it came straight from your heart; the heart that is ALL. Good to see youâre back. You can also subscribe without commenting. Itâs great to âmeetâ you! Thanks for sharing your story. Breaking that circle, it starts with looking into the deeper recesses of who we are â and being accepting of what is there. And this just feels so right for me, to join you on this project of self love. And there love is, and there love begins and it is all so beautiful and so good. They can go on believing that they are willing and able to get a date...just not with "that" person. My dear Lance, And these places "off the path", the inner part of who we are – they can maybe seem unknown, scary, unloved, ignored, new, exciting, off the wall, etc, etc. After all, as the pre-judging thought process goes, "those people" are worth-less, so their opinions do not count. In fact, if we are in Christ, our failure to love others is a sure sign that our heart is not relishing enough the wonder of our salvation. Jen, Love definition, a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, Wandering into the deeper parts of who we are, this is something that can be hard. Your message resonates powerfully ð Why are so many people drawn to conspiracy theories in times of crisis? Hi Tia! And in that being â really seeing the good in who I am (itâs there in me, and itâs there in you). Background, the dark, the shadows from the 23rd Psalm at well-marked and easily accessible.. 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